You wish things would change and get better but you think it’s unrealistic. You think “life works out for other people but not for me.” No matter what you tell yourself, you still long for things to be different. I have seen thousands of...
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I remember when I was 8 months pregnant when an acquaintance came up me and said, Is this your first? I said “YES” in a happy voice. With a smirky grin she said “You just wait!!!!!!!!!” And it happened recently. Someone asked me how old my daughter was...
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Every mother has said these words or thought these words. “You WILL do what I say!” You ask your daughter to study for a test or clean her room. You think it is a simple request. It should take 30 minutes at the most. She...
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I love pie. All kind of pies: blueberry, chocolate pecan, peach, apple, blueberry and lemon meringue. I could go on and on. I remember Nana my grandmother making lemon meringue pies. She didn’t buy the frozen crust from the grocery store. She would make a...
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When you think about starting a new school year does your mind recall all the struggles from last year? You think of how grouchy your daughter is in the mornings when you try to wake her up for school? You think of her blowing off her...
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I love the ocean. I enjoy the smell of the ocean, the song of the seagulls and the sound of waves crashing upon the shore. Nothing feeds my soul like the ocean. Last week I took one last trip to the beach before school starts. I...
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“R*E*S*P*E*C*T Find out what it means to me.” Sing it Aretha! This is the theme song for moms of teenage daughters. You want your daughter to respect you. Right? Here’s how. You want your daughter to think highly of you. You want her to listen to your words...
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I am sitting in a Starbucks in market square in Pittsburgh. I have done a lot of writing from this Starbucks in the past 3 weeks. It’s raining outside and I am glad to be inside drinking coffee and having this time to write. While...
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The lazy days of summer are finally here. Well, not quite. Most of us are still catching our breath from the craziness of the last couple of weeks of school. What are you hoping for this summer? I’m sure you and your daughter are expecting different...
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Mothers tend to be a little dazed and confused at this time of year. The last couple of weeks of school can be very stressful and extremely busy. Kids are dreaming about the summer. They are planning trips to the pool, beach or lake house. They...
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I was riding my bike around Rice University’s campus and I saw people looking at a 5 foot wide by about 12 foot tall piece of cement with some graffiti on it. I was curious, so I went to see what it was. It was...
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I remember when I was 8 months pregnant and another mother came up me and said, Is this your first? I said YES in a happy voice. And then I would get the smirky grin and they’d say You just wait!!!!!!!!! Implying my life would be...
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“I want you to know I am proud of you and you are a Great Mom.” Wouldn’t it be great if someone told you that every day? How would you feel if you really believed it? “You are a great mom!” It feels good doesn’t it? I have...
Read MoreI remember when my daughter was about three watching her nap in her very pink room. She was sleeping peacefully and looked like an angel. At that moment I was aware of what an amazing gift had been entrusted to me. I felt this overwhelming...
Read MoreSo much unnecessary suffering comes from taking things personally. What do I mean by taking things personally? * Your son knows not to leave food or used dishes in his room. You go into his room and you find a pizza box with half eaten pizza buried...
Read MoreI was so organized last night. I wrote out my agenda for the next day. Looking at my planner I was excited because I only had a few clients and some big chunks of time. With some peace and quiet, I could blast through my list. When...
Read MoreI am sure you have heard the expression, “A Woman’s Work is Never Done.” It seems this comes from an old rhymed couplet, “Man may work from sun to sun, but woman's work is never done.” I know this is supposed to be descriptive, giving...
Read MoreThis is Part 2 of Creating a New Tradition: 5 Ways to Feel Centered, Focused and Joyful Over the Holidays. Make sure you read Part 1 It is supposed to be the most Wonderful Time of the Year. Our expectations are super high. It...
Read MorePart 1 It’s not even Halloween. Why is there Christmas decorations up at the shopping center near my house? This did not give me a happy feeling. I felt this oh no feeling. The holiday season is already here. This sounds very scrooge-ish of me, but if...
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