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It can drive you nuts. There she is lying on the sofa being a couch potato while you are running around trying to get your work done. Summer, for lots of moms, is more work when the kids are at home. We don’t want our......

“How do I get my teen to listen to me?” This is the big question for moms of teens.  It seems so easy, right? You tell your daughter what seems reasonable, and you want her to listen to you. But actually we want more. We......

I feel like I had the best dad in the world. I knew he wasn’t perfect, but he never pretended to be. He gave me so many gifts growing up and was my rock through my turbulent teenage years. The most invaluable gift he gave......

When you are the parent of a teen, the fantasy of summer break includes both laughs shared in the sunshine and industrious kids getting work done. Often, reality is a bit different. That disconnect can lead to family drama, which is no one’s idea of......

The last month of school can get crazy. Many of you have been living your lives at 100 miles per hour with the entire end-of-year activities. Your teen thought that summer would never come, and the finals and projects would never stop. She’d daydream about......

Last week, Sara came to see me in my private practice. Sara had that spaced-out, frazzled look. She said, “I want my life back. It’s only the first week of summer, and I’m ready for school to start.” Sara really didn’t want school to start;......

If I were to ask you, “How much do you feel appreciated on a scale of 1 to 10 by your kids, husband, partner, friends, family, or work?” What would you say? I have talked to plenty of moms who feel they were appreciated at......

All moms experience weariness. The reason is that we are fighting the good fight for our family. We give and give and give. And often, we don’t spend the necessary time replenishing all that we pour out onto those we care about. Often, this is......

Is your happiness dependent on your teen’s happiness? Here’s why I asked you this question. Last week, a mom told me with a big smile on her face, “I guess it’s time to go back to my recovery meeting.” I asked her, “Why?” She told......

Sometimes, the answer is no. It has to be, if we are going to protect our daughters. This is not the fun part of being a parent. There she is, standing in front of you in her mature grown-up body. She tells you she can......