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  • Why It’s Hard To Say “No” To Your Teen (And What You Can Do About It)

    Sometimes the answer is no. It has to be if we are going to protect our daughters. This is not the fun part of being a parent. There she is standing in front of you in her mature grown-up body. She tells you, she can......

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  • How to Get Off the Emotional Roller Coaster with Your Teen

    Is your happiness dependent on your teen’s happiness? Here’s why I asked you this question. Last week a mom told me with a big smile on her face, “I guess it’s time to go back to my recovery meeting,” I asked her, “Why?” She told......

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  • Is My Teen Making (Perfect or Imperfect) Progress?

    Every mom wants to see her teen making progress. You hope to witness your teen moving forward and progressing in their academics, creativity, relationships, responsibility, and maturity. This yearning is instinctual in moms and feels like it is written in our DNA. Because this feeling......

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  • For Teenage Girls Selfies Are More Like A Question Than A Statement

    Teenage girls live in the selfie generation. It’s what teen girls do. So what’s up with all these selfies? Parents can be baffled by the frequency of their daughter’s selfies. When we were teens we also loved getting our pictures taken but it wasn’t all......

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  • How to Get My Teen to Exercise

    There are physiological reasons why exercise decreases drama. I know when I exercise consistently I am more patient and pleasant to be around. The same is true for your teenager. Consistent exercise, especially cardio, decreases stress and therefore will decrease drama. The Problem is current......

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  • FOMO: The New Social Anxiety for Teens

    When I was a teen there were no smartphones; we only had landlines. This meant that if I was going to talk to my boyfriend, I had to s t r e t c h the telephone cord as far as I could to get......

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  • Signs of Growth in Your Teen

    The sky was deep blue, no humidity, and the temperature was 60 degrees. I decided to take advantage of this beautiful day in Houston. Days like these are rare in Houston and I wasn’t going to miss it. The red buds were out and some......

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  • How Do You Define a Successful Teenager?

    Defining success is tricky, especially when it comes to your teenager. Would you say your teen is successful?  Would you say your teen was successful? These are uncomfortable questions for both you and your teen. Here’s why. This culture defines success in terms of ranking......

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  • How Teens Push our Buttons

    Yes, teen girls can be drama queens, but moms can be drama mamas. “How? Our disrespectful, moody, entitled, and defiant daughters can push our buttons. And what happens when they push our buttons? We get angry and frustrated very quickly. We fire words right back......

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  • Why Won’t My Teen Listen to Me?

    It seems so simple. In your head, it’s super clear. All you need her to do is clean her room. That’s not asking too much. It’s the least she can do. You are having guests over and you are cleaning the rest of the house,......

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